Five years ago, I wrote this post (now revised) in a season of quiet ache. I was serving, loving, giving in faith and service; but wondering if anyone saw.

In a world that often praises hustle over heart, Martha’s story in Luke 10 feels strikingly familiar. She wasn’t just busy with housework; she was longing to be noticed, valued, and loved during her service.

While her sister Mary sat at Jesus’ feet, Martha carried the weight of responsibility, perhaps wondering if anyone saw her sacrifice.

This passage isn’t a rebuke of productivity; it’s an invitation to presence.

For modern women, especially moms and homemakers, Martha’s moment with Jesus reminds us that our worth isn’t measured by our to-do lists. It’s found in being known by the One who sees beyond the tasks to the tender heart behind them.  This remains something that I am working on.

And today, I revisit Martha’s story with fresh eyes…

Here is what one Biblical Scholar wrote about it:

Helen Frankenthaler, “The List”

“I don’t believe Martha simply chose cooking or housework over the Lord.

  Personal Reflection: When I Felt Like Martha

  I still remember one August evening at Vacation Bible School,    in the baby room.

  The air was thick with heat and humidity, and I was caring for four   babies, alone.

 

 

My helper had called in sick, and there was no one else available. For five nights in a row, I showed up, exhausted but committed.

That night, as the other ladies bustled about their duties, I sat in that tiny room for two full hours, rocking, feeding, soothing; all while feeling invisible.

No one peeked in.

No one asked how I was holding up. I wasn’t angry, but I was weary. I wanted someone to notice, not just the work, but the heart behind it.

In that moment, I felt just like Martha.

Not because I was too busy to sit at Jesus’ feet, but because I longed to be seen by Him. I wasn’t choosing housework over worship; I was choosing service, hoping it mattered. Hoping He saw me.