Making Holiday Memories: Easy Ways to Involve Kids and Grandkids in Thanksgiving Prep


Holiday Memories: Easy Ways to Involve Kids and Grandkids

Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food.

It’s about togetherness, gratitude, and those sweet little moments that turn into lifelong memories. If you’re a new mom juggling babies and side dishes, you can invite kids into the holiday prep.

If you’re a mom or grandmother with a houseful of curious helpers, this doesn’t have to mean extra stress. In fact, with the right approach, it can bring more joy than chaos.

Joy on Thanksgiving Day
is really a possibility with planning and strategy

Here are a few manageable and meaningful ways to get them involved:

Let them “own” a dish:

Even toddlers can help with simple tasks. They can wash potatoes, sprinkle marshmallows on sweet potatoes, or stir ingredients. Older kids can follow a simple recipe and proudly present “their” dish at dinner.

My kids loved owning a special dish

Create a thankful craft station:

Set up a small table with paper, crayons, and glue. Kids can make place cards, a gratitude tree, or handprint turkeys. They can create these crafts while you prep the meal nearby. Their creations will warm hearts—and keep little hands busy.

A spot for the busy hands to create masterpieces to treasure

Make table setting a game:

Turn the task into a scavenger hunt. You can also use printed visuals to guide younger ones through arranging napkins and silverware.

My mother always included an exciting scavenger hunt for the children with treats at the end and a special prize for the one who found the treasure first

Share stories while you prep:

Invite kids to ask questions about family traditions. You can also tell them how you celebrated holidays when you were young. It’s a beautiful way to connect across generations.

Wrapped in warmth, always

Assign an “official helper” role:

Kids love having a job with a title. They can be your “taste tester.”

They might carry napkins or greet guests at the door.

A spoonful of comfort
and someone to test taste the food

Above all, remember, it’s not about perfection. It’s about connection.

The spilled flour and crooked place cards will fade.

First Thanksgiving as a new mom with toddlers – real-life family holiday moments
First Thanksgiving as a new mom with toddlers ~ real-life family holiday moments

Yet, the feeling of being included will stay with them for a lifetime.


Let me hear from you:

What’s one Thanksgiving memory that still makes you smile, laugh, or get a little misty-eyed?

Share it in the comments and let’s fill this space with sweet moments and stuffing stories!

The Perfect Centerpiece

Until next time, with love and light

~~Dawn~~

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